我们都曾经那么傻。

什么样的爱情故事才感人？

网上有许多生离死别的爱情故事，有一定模式，先是一方不珍惜对方，另一方则忍气吞声地无条件接受了对方。然后一个突发的意外，让后者忽然死亡，前者想起生前他或她种种的好，方才后悔莫及。每每看到类似的故事，我都在想这是不是在鼓吹死亡美学？我看了不只不会感动，甚至会有厌烦的冲动。

先别说现实生活如何如何，爱上一个人，是一种懦弱的表现，同时也是坚强的体现。我也许会希望自己在爱情里是一个悲剧的英雄，为保护自己所深爱的人而牺牲；也会为了成全对方完整的生命或推卸难以压抑的悲恸而变得极端，可是为了感动对方而死亡，却是最愚蠢的方式。如果我拥有感动对方的可能，我希望自己永远永远活着，感动她一辈子。

今天看到一个触动心灵的动画，里边有一句话：有些人，不顾一切地颠倒全世界，去换来同一个世界的感觉。

颠覆了整个世界观，不过就为了爱一个人。我们都曾经那么傻。




Some say love, it is a river
that drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor
that leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger,
an endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower,
and you it's only seed.

It's the heart afraid of breaking
that never learns to dance.
It's the dream afraid of waking
that never takes the chance.
It's the one who won't be taken,
who cannot seem to give,
and the soul afraid of dyin'
that never learns to live.

When the night has been too lonely
and the road has been too long,
and you think that love is only
for the lucky and the strong,
just remember in the winter
far beneath the bitter snow
lies the seed that with the sun's love
in the spring becomes the rose.